Thursday, 19 September 2013

I wear yoga pants. Just like my mom.



Women and girls of suburban North American, quit it with the yoga pants as pants trend. Not just because it’s ugly - oh, it is ugly, and the Fug Girls have been telling you so since 2008, but you clearly never got the memo that Tights are not Pants, or you just thought it was a cute ironic thing to laugh at with the girls. You need to stop wearing them because it’s weird.

Sure it’s weird that you want to be seen in the oddest mix of provocative lack of clothing, and completely sexless unsexy, oh my god, I can’t even be bothered dressing college student anti-chic. Seriously, you match them with hoodies. Typically college hoodies. And don’t even get me started on the ugg boots (Someone in ugg marketing did something brilliant to change that charming specimen of woolly footwear from cheap Australasian bogan attire to $150+ upmarket North American department store fare).

But, I’m not here to accuse you of your sartorial crimes. We all make bad fashion choices at some stage or another, and there’s no accounting for taste. Girls, I want to know why you’re suddenly dressing like your mothers.

No, no, no, they’re not dressing like you, my young friends heading off to Tim Hortons for your second Iced Capp and third Honey Crüller of the day. Women in their 30s and 40s (and even 50s) have been rocking the tragic leggings as pants look for years now. It’s the very embodiment of 21st-century conspicuous consumerism for the leisure classes: Look at me and my wealth. Not only is the school run a saunter for me, as I drop the kids off, freshly brewed coffee in my KeepCup, I can then casually head off to the gym, or maybe even a special hot yoga class at Lululemon, and spend my morning being all healthy and glowy. While you plebs have to go work or clean your house. I even have plenty of time for school volunteering, because I’m THAT sort of mother.

Or alternatively, it suggests a contrived air of sporty casualness: Oh, I don’t need to bother with the restrictions of street wear, I just live in my yoga pants.

You just worked out in those things. Go change.  

Anyway, what sort of homogenous suburban hell have I found myself in, where 14 and 15 year olds want to dress like their mothers? Or if not their specific mother, a TV sitcom version of a MILF? Seriously, who are you trying to impress? Because the easy extrapolation to that question is an uncomfortable, your Dad?

At this point we can easily point to the infantilising of Generation X and Y. If my generation actually dressed like grown-ups, the youth might have a chance to wear their own clothes.

But that’s a lousy excuse. Reject our choices! I can tell you’re not, because my husband and I don’t especially try on the fashion front, and my husband has been wearing roughly the same thing since university, and we still look vaguely hipster. We were in Ann Arbor the other day and conceivably passed for slightly older students. In Ann-freakin’-hipster-Arbor. We’re 35! We should look like losers.

You’re too easy on us! Crikey, when I was at university, my friends and I dressed noticeably different from my elder sister and her friends, and she was only four years older than us. FOUR. Not 17 years older.

So quit it with the identikit yoga pants you bought on a shopping trip with your mom. She’s made a bad clothing choice, but you’re a teenager, you can choose something entirely different. Hopefully something I think is vaguely shocking.

P.S. Part of me wants to stop and congratulate any high school student I see wearing something interesting, but it feels counterproductive that they should need to receive their sartorial encouragement from a 35-year-old suburban mother. 

P.P.S. I've worn legging as pants before. I was on holiday. Note that the children are in their pyjamas. 


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